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Question your jealousy
I have a few friends of whom I'm consistently envious. Why? They go to concerts, festivals, vacations; they see shows and movies; they...
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Acknowledge your feelings
This summer has been a bit of a butt-kicker in the Myers house. A week or two after my daughter was sick with a virus that brought with...
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Get back to basics
They were our best yard sale customers of the day. They bought a picnic quilt from my mom. Then some toys. Then they picked out some...
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Compartmentalize
When I was a college freshman, a simple reading assignment could take hours. I would read a little, chat a little, read a little, eat a...
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Assume positive intent
“You screwed up.“ Ouch. That’s a rough way to start an email. I wasn’t the recipient, yet I was feeling defensive. I didn't even know the...
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Choose happiness
One of my best dresses? Check. Good breakfast? Check. Research? Visual aids? Slide advancer? Check. Check. Check. I was ready. I had...
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Invest in ease
"Money can't buy happiness." I've heard it. I've said it. I believe it. But money can make life a bit easier. There's the big stuff, of...
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Capitalize on found time
The traffic came to a complete stop. I had been making good time on the way to my son's baseball game after work. And then all of a...
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Improve your questions
"How are you?" "Good. How are you?" "Good, thanks." Now what? Lots of conversations start that way and quickly go nowhere. You haven't...
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Write your obituary
My mom is the sixth child in a family of twelve, so my grandparents' fiftieth wedding anniversary many years ago was quite an...
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Spend time purposefully
"I have written more in the past few weeks than I have since I graduated college with my creative writing degree 11 years ago," my friend...
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Shift to gratitude
"You've got holes in another pair of jeans?! How many is that?" If you were walking down our street recently, you likely would have heard...
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Prepare for the worst
It’s my worst nightmare...speaking in front of an audience that slowly get smaller and smaller. Person after person standing up and...
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Be clear about what you want
What mother tells her children that what she really wants for Mother's Day is to be by herself? This one. I had mentioned wanting time to...
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Recall past successes
My daughter was acting uncharacteristically jumpy and frenetic. It was confusing and annoying until I asked her what was really going on....
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Strike while the iron's hot
As our meeting wrapped up, I volunteered to send a recap to everyone, particularly for the benefit of the committee member who wasn't...
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Apologize sincerely
"I messed that up. I'm sorry." Those six words are powerful, aren't they? Presumably, you've been both the victim and the perpetrator of...
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Stand firm
"No, I won't send that." "Why not?" "Because it's unfair to our members, who have paid a lot of money for those materials. And it's a...
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Go with the flow
I spend a lot of time trying to convince others not to argue with reality, because it's a fight they'll never win. I've repeatedly urged...
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Improve your bedside manner
I ended up in the emergency room last Friday night. On her way to work, my sister stopped behind a car whose driver was waiting to turn...
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